Yes, You Can Homeschool!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

I often hear parents say that as much as they'd like to try homeschooling, they feel like they can't. Remarks like: "I don't have the patience," or "I don't know anything about teaching," or "I wouldn't know where to begin or how to proceed," or "I worry that I wouldn't do it right," often stop interested parents from further considering the homeschooling option. The truth is, yes, you can absolutely homeschool your kids! Who better to educate your children than the people who know them best and who can provide them with undivided attention and tailored learning?

Here are three reasons to put away your doubts and give homeschooling a try:

Being a parent is hard work. And being a homeschooling parent is harder work. You will have your share of bad days. You will have days filled with feelings of frustration, doubt and inadequacy. You will have days when you feel you are climbing uphill toward bedtime. All parents, homeschooling or not, have these days. They come with the territory. Realize that you don't have to be a perfect parent to be an excellent homeschooling one. Enjoying time with your kids, enjoying watching them learn and discover, enjoying providing them with a nurturing and stimulating learning environment: these are the "prerequisites" for being a successful homeschooling parent.

Some prospective homeschooling parents shy away from homeschooling because they feel they don't have the knowledge or expertise to homeschool their children. You don't need to be an educator or a subject-matter expert to homeschool. You do need to be able to facilitate your children's learning by recognizing their learning needs and interests and gathering resources to help them develop. Some homeschoolers purchase packaged curricula to ensure they are providing a thorough education for their children. Others choose an "eclectic" approach to curricula, perhaps purchasing curriculum for certain subjects and allowing for more organic, interdisciplinary learning in other subjects. And many homeschoolers rely on community resources, like classes, tutors, and local homeschooling activities, to introduce their children to a variety of instructors who are experts in their given fields. So stop worrying that you need to be sitting around a table teaching your children physics and calculus. Chances are you will find terrific instructors for these subjects, whether online, through textbooks and packaged curriculum, or through community learning resources, like community colleges.

If you decide to homeschool now, you can certainly change your mind later. There is no lifetime commitment to homeschooling. You can homeschool for preschool but not for kindergarten. You can homeschool for elementary school but not for middle and high school. You can homeschool one year and send your kids to a traditional school the next year. You can homeschool one child but send another to traditional school based on needs and interests. In fact, many homeschoolers move seamlessly between school and home depending on the year and specific learning goals. Experiment with homeschooling, see if it's a good fit for your family, and realize that you have the freedom to reevaluate your decision at any time.

So, yes, you can do it! You can absolutely homeschool your children and are well-positioned to provide them with a fulfilling, meaningful and rigorous educational experience.


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  3. i love your blog!!!! And I need your advice. My child is 18 months, and I am only now starting to enjoy motherhood. Before having her I always thought I wanted to home-school and I still want to.. for me. But I fear screwing her up. I read your post on breastfeeding helping you into motherhood. Before I became a mother I thought I would formula fed if it was easier, and I never heard anything about feeding every 2 hours. I ended up breastfeeding cause it felt more natural and looked easier (never bottlefed so i only imagine it to feel more natural). I still breastfed but she eats real food and drinks water. but we cosleep and she drinks a lot at night. We live in the netherlands (far from family), but everyone tells me to hurry up and wean her. 1) I have no idea how to wean her 2) it seems like a lot of work to wean her 3) it is nice breastfeeding so i can relate to your post. lol my typing is horrible since she is feeding and sleeping on me right now and i type with one hand. so uppercase letters are difficult. reading this blog is like reconnecting with my prebirth self, cause the first year of motherhood sucked for me. but now she behaves sooo much better. i'm so afraid of home schooling though, what if she hates me? what if she blames me for her social life..if it goes badly. but also i dread her 4th birthday and the thought of letting go. SHE IS MY CHILD DAMMIT, i want to see her educated. i want to be there and to make sure she is learning in a way i find acceptable. this feels like the hardest decision of my life. lol. i also run a business. you spoke about choosing motherhood over your company. before i had my child i thought for sure i would be a stay at home mom, but in the first year i realized that it was too lonely for me, so we bought a house with a shop below and my and my toddler run the shop lol. so sometimes you cn do both. but honestly the shop is not to make money so i open when i want to etc.

  4. I just found your blog (by way of searching all things Quechee Club - new members)... I am a fairly new mama of an almost 2 year old and one more on the way... I've always thought about homeschooling (disregarding the backlash and negative comments I get from just about everyone I know) because I want the time and to be able to explore life, our city (live in the next town over from you), to have the ability to travel the world with our children is one of our biggest goals... I'd love to talk with you more about this! I'm no Harvard Edu major so I'd love to hear your perspective on things. ~

    1. Hi April! I'd love to connect with you! Email me at kmcdonald (at)